Your Erotic Starship Energy Blueprint

Your Erotic

Starship Energy

Today we’re going to discuss your Erotic Starship Energy. “Erotic” energy is your life force energy, which makes you feel alive! Your “starship” is how you travel from one experience to another as you learn to navigate the world around you, and is your unique blueprint.

Release Shame and judgment

As we’ve previously discussed, your moans can connect you to your body’s feelings and sensations and help you stay in your body, in the present moment. More expansively, learning about your erotic starship energy can help you understand the bigger picture of your desires and how you tend to go after them. It answers the question, “Why do I think, feel and do things that way?” Not from a place of judgment or shame but from a place of deeper self-awareness, consciousness, curiosity and connection.

Increase Intimacy

I teach and encourage my beloved community to study the elements, planets and energies that makes up their erotic starship in order to assist them in owning and naming their desires in their intimate relationships. It’s one of the ways I’ve come to understand and embrace myself. I don’t teach anything I don’t also practice.

Studying these naturally erotic parts of ourselves often brings clarity and a deeper level of self-intimacy, partner-intimacy and community-intimacy.

Beyond the Gender Binary

Discovering your erotic starship energy blueprint, may help you find that….

regardless of your sex, gender, sexual orientation and the roles society defines for you, you may learn that you’re a fiery person (masculine/active energy) who communicates like water (feminine/introspective energy), with an earthy (feminine/intuitive) erotic love language, and an airy (masculine/extroverted) way of getting your needs met. All of these energies lie within each of us.

This awareness is multi-layered and can help you make sense of how your needs, desires and actions play out in your relationships, how you resolve inner conflicts and how to accept your human contradictions.

Some aspects of your erotic starship energy may be hidden (feminine energy), while other parts of you may stand out (masculine energy)! This may mean that it takes more time and intimacy for people to truly get to know you, because of how your unique energy flows.

It may also help you embrace yourself with the knowledge that there is no need to waste your time with anyone who isn’t going to enjoy taking their precious time getting to know all of you.

This clarity can open up your world

exponentially!

We are a part of nature

There are many ways to talk about our erotic energy and desires. But how often do we really get to discuss the way that the natural world, above and below us, influences our humanity, our spirituality and our sexuality all at the same time? Aren’t we a part of nature after all?

To learn more about your unique erotic starship energy, regardless of what system of astrology you use, schedule an Erotic Starship Reading and Upliftment Session today.

Black Girl Tantra’s services, workshops, retreats and trainings are creative, practical, immersive and beyond this world transformational for ALL BODIES!

Email maisha@blackgirltantra.com about speaking engagements appearances, writing an erotic activist piece, or finding your erotic energy!

 

 MOANING THROUGH THE CHAKRAS

 The 7 Major Energy Centers

Believe it or not, it is possible to intentionally direct your moans toward each of the 7 major energy centers (chakras) of your body, to alleviate your bod from feeling stiff and rigid to feeling supple, flexible and agile again. If you’re feeling restricted, confined, or stuck in your relationships, chances are you’re feeling that way in your chakras, your mind and your body all at the same time.

Moaning is really multi-dimensional when you think about it, just like us!

 

How difficult or easy it is for your moan to emerge and where it originates in your body, can provide you with important insights.

The level of ease or difficulty you have with your moan, can indicate what interventions might be needed to help you move out of a mentally, physically, emotionally, sexually or spiritually stuck place. It is absolutely possible to realign your chakra’s through the powerful act of conscious moaning!

self-healing and community-healing

You can realign your energy centers on your own, or you can find a practitioner who has years of insights, wisdom and practice with energy, healing and sound vibrations to help you begin or support you (shameless plug) ;-).

Finding your moan helps you get to know yourself, your energy, and your body better, from the inside out. Not only is moaning a great tool for self-healing and self-pleasuring but it’s also a powerful tool for our collective healing! Many African diasporic communities around the world collectively moan to process grief and other emotions as a collective. Your community may already do this in ways that you may not even realize.

An example of how moaning through the chakras can work for you...

Let’s say that you are having difficulty expressing your pleasure, your needs, desires, or actual moans when being intimate with your partner. Maybe you are self-conscious about making sounds, or you don’t think that moaning is appropriate for someone who looks like you. If you keep your voice silent even when you are experiencing pleasure this may have a deeper meaning for you than you may realize - it could even lead back to past social conditioning or even physical or emotional trauma.

For example, some people feel that being stoic makes you present in a certain way to people, perhaps this means you appear “strong” and “impenetrable” sexy and desirable even - you’ve heard the term, “the strong silent type”. However, this silence can also leave a person closed off from their partners during intimacy, in ways that they might not even realize. If you find that this does impact your self-intimacy and partnered-intimacy in ways that you do not desire, this may be both a throat issue as well as a solar plexus one.

THROAT CHAKRA

Self-censoring and not allowing certain pleasurable energy in, can be a throat chakra issue. Stifling your moan, may stifle your breath, your voice and your ability to let erotic energy into your body or may prevent old, stale energy from leaving. Stagnant energy in the throat can look like frequent sore throats, teeth issues, gum issues, feeling like a lump is in the throat. If closing off your moan or voice during pleasure or pain, is ultimately about a desire to maintain a “strong” appearance, or a wall of protection, this can likely be a throat issue accompanied by a solar plexus issue.

SOLAR PLEXUS

The Solar Plexus, the area just above our belly button deals with our relationship with dominance and submission, power and control. Solar plexus blocks may look like, digestion issues, reflux, slow bowels, IBS, constipation, diarrhea, gas and bloating, low energy.  Another solar plexus block can present as an inability to project your voice far enough for others to hear you well, or feel confident in your words, especially when it really counts. Or just the opposite, you may experience a lot of anger, rage and frustration. And of course there is always the both/and, meaning may experience it ALL which really can stir up your nervous system.

WHY MOANING IS SO IMPORTANT

From my own experience as an evolving, multi-dimensional human who has experienced complex trauma and silenced her voice, I’ve learned that stifling your own voice can impact your relationship with yourself and others whom you want to be more intimate and communicative with - be they family, friends, lovers, partners, co-workers, spouses or community.

As an erotic healing practitioner who has gained lots of insights working with folks over the decades, I’ve seen how silencing yourself can stop you from experiencing the full breadth of sensations and emotions that your body is capable of knowing.

Something new, different and liberating happens when you consciously access your moan, IN ALL OF IT’S FORMS, WITHin in the deep recesses of your wise and magical body.

 

TIME FOR CLASS!

Moaning Through The Chakras CLASS Thursday June 13 at 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm (Eastern Daylight time)

To put moaning through the chakras into practice, join me for a 60 minute zoom class Thursday June 13 at 7:00 pm (Eastern Daylight time), where we will have fun finding our pleasurable moans and locating which energy centers we are activating in our bodies!

Black Girl Tantra’s services, workshops, retreats and trainings are creative, practical, immersive and beyond this world transformational for ALL BODIES!

Click the link above to talk with Maisha about speaking, writing an erotic activist piece, or finding your erotic moan!

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PLEASURE-FILLED VS. PAIN-FILLED MOANS

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Pleasure vs. Pain

Today, we will dive a little deeper into moaning as we explore the distinctive worlds of pleasure-filled and pain-filled moans-two vocalizations that reveal much about the human experience.

When moaning from pain, you’re allowing yourself to feel that pain sensation, to be in that present moment and discover how you feel about that pain, and to move through the feeling rather than prevent or suppress your emotions.

When moaning from pleasure, you’re allowing yourself the fullness of your pleasure in that very moment rather than thinking about the past, the future or "if I’m doing it right". You are in the fullness of that experience and in that moment. You are fully aware of those feelings and sensations, tastes and smells - be they mundane, sexual, sensual or erotic experiences. Keep in mind, pleasure can come from your favorite, food, place, or your favorite experience. 

The sky is the limit!

Have you ever experienced a moment where pleasure unexpectedly turned into pain, or vice versa?

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Intro to moaning

 

Did you know...

Moaning is more than just a sound!

Firstly, moaning can serve as an emotional release, and allows you to use your breath to exhale, thereby bringing oxygen to your body, your aches and pains. Studies have shown that moaning and vocalizing from cursing & shouting, to saying "ow" stimulates the brain and may help trigger serotonin release. 

Secondly, moaning is affordable and almost everyone with the use of their vocal cords can do it! Most, if not all, of us with active vocal cords have moaned at one point or another in our lives. Even if you are not able to use your vocal cords, there are additional ways to let your body express a silent moan, which can have the same effect. It is all about vibration and intention. From a deep bellowing groan, to a high-pitched squeal of delight moaning can be a useful tantric tool.

Lastly, moaning is not a new concept. It can help you stay in the present moment by accessing how you feel emotionally. Whether your moan is due to physical or emotional pain, pleasure, grief, anger or discomfort, moaning helps you move through and communicate feelings. And what is not talked about often enough, is how delicious moans can be when accessed for all of life’s pleasures.

Moans support us in our healing pleasure and our daily lives…

What are some ways moaning shows up in your life?

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